A thought process on intimacy via some definitions

ro·mance/rōˈmans,ˈrōˌmans/

noun
1. a feeling of excitement and mystery associated with love.

  • love, esp. when sentimental or idealized.
    synonyms: love, passion, ardor, adoration, devotion
  • an exciting, enjoyable love affair, esp. one that is not serious or long-lasting.
    synonyms: love affair, relationship, liaison, courtship, attachment; flirtation, dalliance

2. a quality or feeling of mystery, excitement, and remoteness from everyday life. 

  • wild exaggeration; picturesque falsehood.

verb
1. court; woo, chase, pursue.

  • informal: seek the attention or patronage of (someone), esp. by use of flattery
  • engage in a love affair

2. another term for romanticize


mus·ing /ˈmyo͞oziNG/

noun
1.
 a period of reflection or thought


fling /fliNG/

verb 
1. throw or hurl forcefully

noun
1. a short period of enjoyment or wild behavior


interaction /ˌintərˈakSHən/

noun
1. reciprocal action or influence.

  • physics: a particular way in which matter, fields, and atomic and subatomic particles affect one another, e.g., through gravitation or electromagnetism.

situation /ˌsiCHo͞oˈāSHən/

noun
1. a set of circumstances in which one finds oneself; a state of affairs.
2. the location and surroundings of a place.
3. formal: a position of employment; a job.


arrangement /əˈrānjmənt/

noun
1. the action, process, or result of arranging or being arranged.

  • a thing that has been arranged in a neat or attractive way

2. plans or preparations for a future event.

  • an agreement with someone

ca·su·al /ˈkaZHo͞oəl/

adjective
1. relaxed and unconcerned.
2. not regular or permanent, in particular.

noun
1. a person who does something irregularly.
2. clothes or shoes suitable for everyday wear rather than formal occasions.